𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐎𝐔𝐋𝐃𝐄𝐑 𝐌𝐚𝐧 is a community of men & fathers devoted to self-awareness, understanding, healing, and growth.
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐁𝐎𝐔𝐋𝐃𝐄𝐑 𝐌𝐚𝐧 𝐂𝐚𝐯𝐞 (our Men's Group) is a safe place, but not a place to hide and avoid yourself. We support, learn from each other on a deep level of connection, and huMANize the male experience. 𝐃𝐌 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐝𝐞𝐭𝐚𝐢𝐥𝐬.
𝐁𝐎𝐔𝐋𝐃𝐄𝐑 𝐏𝐑𝐈𝐍𝐂𝐈𝐏𝐋𝐄𝐒:
𝐁ravery
𝐎bjectivity
𝐔nderstanding
𝐋ove
𝐃iscipline
𝐄mpathy
𝐑esilience
The community was established to facilitate 𝐡𝐨𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐭 and 𝐯𝐮𝐥𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐛𝐥𝐞 discussions in a supportive, safe space (𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐌𝐚𝐧 𝐂𝐚𝐯𝐞), so that men can be seen, felt, and heard, and to 𝐡𝐮𝐌𝐀𝐍𝐢𝐳𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐦𝐚𝐥𝐞 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞.
We 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭 each other to move through pain, grow through shame and 𝐡𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐬𝐩𝐚𝐜𝐞 for each other during the experience of growth and healing.
It’s a space where men can feel 𝐬𝐮𝐩𝐩𝐨𝐫𝐭𝐞𝐝 & 𝐜𝐞𝐥𝐞𝐛𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐝 on their journey towards a new, improved and balanced masculinity within themselves.
Honesty & Respect: Be honest, and treat the honesty of others with respect.
Curiosity - No judgement: This is a place free from judgement. When we’re curious about another’s process or being, to learn, we are less judgemental.
Ask before giving advice: Ask for permission to provide advice. We’re here to be seen, felt and heard for our own experience of being a man - no one needs to be fixed.
Honesty & Respect
Honesty can be vulnerability. Be honest, and treat the honesty of others with respect.
Curiosity - No judgement
This is a place free from judgement. When we’re curious about another’s process or being to learn, we are less judgemental.
Ask before giving advice
Ask for permission to provide advice. Unsolicited advice can be misconstrued as having something that needs fixing.
Day | Members | Gain | % Gain |
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July 26, 2023 | 306 | 0 | 0.0% |
June 30, 2023 | 306 | -2 | -0.7% |
April 04, 2023 | 308 | -1 | -0.4% |
March 10, 2023 | 309 | +6 | +2.0% |
January 18, 2023 | 303 | +1 | +0.4% |
January 14, 2023 | 302 | +1 | +0.4% |
January 06, 2023 | 301 | +1 | +0.4% |
October 27, 2022 | 300 | -1 | -0.4% |
October 07, 2022 | 301 | -1 | -0.4% |
August 05, 2022 | 302 | +1 | +0.4% |
June 27, 2022 | 301 | -3 | -1.0% |
May 31, 2022 | 304 | +1 | +0.4% |
April 14, 2022 | 303 | +1 | +0.4% |
March 23, 2022 | 302 | +1 | +0.4% |
March 16, 2022 | 301 | +1 | +0.4% |
November 09, 2021 | 300 | +1 | +0.4% |
October 29, 2021 | 299 | +15 | +5.3% |
August 26, 2021 | 284 | +1 | +0.4% |
August 25, 2021 | 283 | +5 | +1.8% |
August 24, 2021 | 278 | +19 | +7.4% |
August 18, 2021 | 259 | +2 | +0.8% |