Darren Lum on Clubhouse

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Born in the year 1970 ♋️ 🇸🇬
Some Life lessons: learning, learnt and unlearning
1) Only I myself can take the first step to get out from being engulfs by the emotion to a failed relationship that is circling me. It is only when that first step is made, willing hands can help pull me out.
2)Nothing is permanent, it applies to promises, it can be broken. It is therefore important for reassessment of surrounding, situations and needs against wants.
3) How much I have sacrifices in the relationship, be it time or money, can not be added to add weight to my love given to my partner. In most situations the other party thinks he/she made more sacrifices.
4) No matter what, always learn to love myself a bit more and spend time with myself alone. It is to energize my soul so I can radiate the good vibes to the people I care about.
5) Have good judgment and be judgmental NOT. Any bias can falls into being judgmental but adding additional human factor to the equation may turn it into a good judgment. It is never easy especially when we are only human. Step back, look at the bigger picture, always give a benefit of a doubt. Most time, it will reveals itself.
6) The universe is mysterious, we are intertwined to learn from each other. Be it the experience is good or bad, I believe I will continue to repeat my lessons until I have truly learn to not cause harm to myself and others.