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RELATIONSHIPS WIN CHAMPIONSHIPS ! Soooo

WHY DO SO MANY RELATIONSHIPS STRUGGLE?

Most say Lack of Communication.

But what exactly isn’t being communicated though?

After studying this, I realized…

1. Most of us are not CLEARLY COMMUNICATING our…

NATURAL HUMAN DESIRES

How we want to be Heard, Seen, Felt, Understood, Valued, Connected, Accepted, Appreciated & LOVED


We are also not communicating…

2. What type and level of support we desire in the following

SUPPORT SYSTEM CATEGORIES

1. Spiritual Support
2. Emotional Support
3. Intellectual Support
4. Experiential Support
5. Sensual Support &
6. Financial Support


Many of us build relations with people with no agreement or promises of what support we’re looking to receive and give.

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SO, WHAT STEPS WILL HELP WITH BETTER RELATIONS?

MY HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP FRAMEWORK

1. Self evaluate, write down AND communicate your
: “S.P.L.A.S.H.E.D”

📝STORY / AUTOBIOGRAPHY
🤪PERSONALITY TYPE
😋LIKES & DISLIKES + FEARS
💪ABILITIES / STRENGTHS + WEAKNESSES
🪑SUPPORT SYSTEM
♻️HABITS
🙌🏾EMPOWERMENT ACTIVITES
💎DEEP & CORE VALUES

+

🤺CONFLICT RESOLUTION STYLE
🎙COMMUNICATION STYLE / LOVE LANGUAGE
🤞 ACCOUNTABILITY SYSTEM & MEASURES


2. Analyze and Categorize the people you know into the following:

RELATIONSHIP GROUPS

GOD
YOURSELF (have to have a solid relationship with self)
SPOUSE
PARENTS
SIBLINGS
RELATIVES
PETS
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CLOSE FRIENDS
FRIENDS
COWORKERS
ASSOCIATES
CHALLENGERS
ENEMIES

And Document your Role and Responsibilities

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THREATS

Assumed Expectations
Broken Promises/Agreements
No Boundaries
Ulterior motives