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‎عن أبي حمزة أنس بن مالك رضي الله عنه قال عن النبي صلى الله عليه و سلم قال:
‎"لا يؤمن أحدكم حتى يحب لأخيه ما يحب لنفسه".
‎. [رواه البخاري [ومسلم

On the authority of Abu Hamzah Anas bin Malik (may Allah be pleased with him)- that the Prophet Mohammed (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said :
"None of you will believe until you love for your brother what you love for yourself."
Related by Bukhari & Muslim

It is clear that being able to love for your brother or sister what you love for yourself is a characteristic every true Muslim should train their heart upon.
What does this mean?
Firstly it is the golden rule; treat others how you want to be treated. You don’t want to be backbitten, so don’t backbite others.
Secondly it means you place yourself in someone else’s shoes and think: what would I have desired? And then desire the same for him. Imagine if every Muslim would live by this hadith then most of the problems between people would be solved and we would know true brotherhood!

Tips on Learning How to Love for Others what You Love for Yourself!

Learn the Names of Allah

Never Wish Evil on Others

Don’t Exploit Other People’s Flaws
Some people see flaws in others and instead of hoping for them to improve they put the person down further in order to feel better. This is a disease of the heart, wanting to see others to do bad in order to feel better yourself.
When you see flaws in others, try to help them fix their problems, advice them gently, offer help in reconciling between people and love for that person to grow closer to Allah.
Share Your Blessings

And [there is a share for] those who came after them, saying, “Our Lord, forgive us and our brothers who preceded us in faith and put not in our hearts [any] resentment toward those who have believed. Our Lord, indeed You are Kind and Merciful.” (Quran 59:12)
O Allah, guide us to live by Your Names, make us desire for others what we desire for ourselves, help us to share our blessings and adorn us with a heart full of true love for others what we love for ourselves.